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Confession Confession, Reconciliation, or Penance There are four steps in the Sacrament of Reconciliation: We feel contrition for our sins and a conversion of heart to change our ways. We confess our sins to a priest. We receive and accept forgiveness (absolution) and are absolved of our sins. We celebrate God’s love for us and commit to living a Christian life.Everyone sins. Everyone fails to live a holy and perfect life. The Sacrament of Reconciliation cleanses us from sin so we can be one with God again. Sin hurts our relationship with God, ourselves, and others. Through His death and resurrection, Jesus gave the Church the Sacrament of Reconciliation to reconcile us to God and to our family of faith. No matter what we've done, God's love and mercy is always available to us through the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Frequently Asked Questions WHAT IF I'VE BEEN AWAY FROM THE THE SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION FOR A LONG TIME? Please know that you are always welcome back. What if I don't know what to do or say? This is actually pretty common. If you received your First Reconciliation when you were young, you may remember that there is a standard format, and you may have forgotten how to follow that format. Just let the priest know and he'll guide you through the process. What do I do if I'm not sure God will forgive me? Forgiveness is central to the mission and message of Jesus Christ. God is able to forgive us even before we've been able to forgive ourselves. How should I prepare for the Sacrament of Reconciliation? Sometimes we know what we need to confess. Other times we are unclear, or we stay on the surface without going deeper. There is a form of prayer known as an Examination of Conscience that can help us prepare to make a good Confession. How often should I go to the Sacrament of Reconciliation? The Church asks us to go at least once a year, but more frequently is usually better. Use your best judgment. If you are wrestling with something specific, then going more frequently would be helpful. Act of Contrition My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against You whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with Your help, to do penance, to sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to sin. CONFESSION SCHEDULE Confession is available before each mass and upon request. |